Elders & Deacons

Nansemond River is lead by a plurality of elders.  Some of our elders are employed by the church (vocational) while others make a living through other means.   The terms "pastor" and "elder" are used interchangeably to describe all of these men.  Together, the Elders of Nansemond River lead, feed, and protect the church. 

Vocational Elders

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Ryan Brice     Lead Pastor

Ryan began serving as Lead Pastor in 2015 after serving 18 years as a Student Pastor in churches across the southeast U.S. He earned a Master of Divinity from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary and a Doctor of Ministry in Expository Preaching from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. Ryan uses his giftedness in teaching, preaching, leadership, and administration, as well as his passion for discipleship and missions, to equip the saints for the work of ministry. He is committed to expositional preaching and a lifestyle that demonstrates personal discipleship and evangelism. As a native of Louisiana, Ryan loves cooking and eating all the Cajun food he can get his hands on. He has been married to his wife, Cristy, since 2001 and they have two sons, Brody and A.J.


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    Pastor of Worship and Administration

Brian began serving as Pastor of Worship and Administration in early 2018. He earned a Master of Arts in Worship Leadership from Liberty Baptist Theological Seminary and is currently pursuing a Doctorate in Christian Leadership at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. He uses the experiences gained from both of his degrees in his role here as he leads the congregation in worship in our weekly services with a gifted team of vocalists and musicians and as he works with ministry leaders to develop pathways for church members to serve NRBC. He has been married to his wife Caitlyn since 2012 and they have three children, Rebekah, Isaac and Mary-Grace.  Brian enjoys all things music, spending time with his family, being outdoors, cycling, and the occasional sprint triathlon.

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Jadrian Haywood
  Pastor of Adult Discipleship & Outreach

Jadrian began serving as Pastor, Adult Discipleship and Outreach in February 2022. He has earned a Master of Divinity from Gateway Seminary of the Southern Baptist Convention and a Bachelors in Biblical Studies from Liberty University. Before joining the staff at Nansemond River Baptist Church, Jadrian served as an Associate Pastor in northern California. He also comes to us with 17-years of experience in the United States Air Force in various roles in the medical field, training, and leadership. He is passionate about leading teams and creating a strategy to advance God's kingdom here on earth. Jadrian married the love of his life, Rykeshia, in 2008 and they have four children, Kirsten, Kennedy, Christopher, and Caleb. Jadrian enjoys roasting coffee, long-distance jogs, and reading from a wide range of genres. He grew up in Charlotte, North Carolina.

 

  

Non-Vocational Elders


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Barry Hobbs

Barry has been married to his wife Debbie since 1974. They have two children and four grandchildren. He has managed a local remodeling company, Addition Associates, since 1980. He was born again at NRBC in 1971 and has served in many roles (as a deacon for more than 20 years and as an elder since 2008). He leads a small group on Sunday mornings. His simple desire is that the NRBC church family will walk as a unified body and “press forward to reach the lost world for Christ.” Barry has served as an elder of Nansemond River since 2008. 


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Steve Smith

Steve grew up in Hampton Roads (Chesapeake). He met his wife Traci at church and they have been married since 2005. Steve and Traci have two daughters, Evelyn and Sophia. He currently works as an administrator with Suffolk Public Schools. At NRBC he leads a small group, elder for personnel committee and serves with the CRT. However, his big passion is local missions. He leads our Pray. Send. Go. Partnership on the Appalachian Trail, which ministers to the hikers through fellowship, prayers and support.

         

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Steve de Mik                                                   

Steve and his wife Angie met in college at Southwest Baptist University and were married in 1987. They have two adult married children who both attended Norfolk Christian Schools and Liberty University. They have one grandchild. Steve and Angie lived their married lives in Missouri, Tennessee, and Virginia and have been in the Hampton Roads region since 2000.  Steve is the Deputy General Manager/Chief Financial Officer for the Hampton Roads Sanitation District.  He leads a small group on Sunday mornings and is involved in a Christian orphan ministry based out of Williamsburg.  Steve has served as an elder of Nansemond River since January of 2024.

 

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Don Coley

Don and his wife Susan have been married for 53 years. They have 2 children, 5 grandchildren, and 3 great-grandchildren. Don has been a member of Nansemond River Baptist Church for 43 years and faithfully leads one of our adult small groups. He also serves on our worship and finance teams and enjoys going on mission trips to the Eastern Shore and Appalachian Trail to serve in those ministries. Don has been an elder of Nansemond River Baptist Church since 2009.

 

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Nathaniel Winslow

Nathaniel and his wife Lauren have been married for 10 years. They have four young children and stay active in our student ministry. Nathaniel has faithfully served at Nansemond River Baptist Church in a number of different ways, including serving as our Facilities Director for a time as well as our Student Ministry Director. He continues to faithfully serve in our Student Ministry each week and is passionate about seeing our students grow in their faith.  He has served as an elder since March of 2024. 

 

Deacons 

NRBC has a number of godly men who serve as deacons in the church. A deacon is a servant-leader appointed to fulfill a specific ministry need in the church. If you want a list of current deacons, please contact the church office at info@nansemondriver.org. Currently, the Deacon Body focuses on visiting the sick and ill who are hospitalized and making sure our homebound members are being served. In addition, they help coordinate the logistics of the Lord’s Supper, baptism, facility lock-up, facility care, benevolence, and more.

 

Elder Position Papers

The below position papers reflect the current views and understanding of the elders on specific topics and issues as they pertain to the life of the church.  These documents are for informational purposes and only reflect the views expressed by our current elder council.

Biblical Qualifications for Elders and Deacons (Amended 12-21-2023)

Children, Baptism, and Church Membership

 

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